Friday, July 27, 2012

Formspring Friday: To Peg or Not to Peg


do you do pegging?



No, we don't.  That's not to say that we have anything against the act itself; we know how popular pegging is amongst many of our fellow bloggers, and we understand that the male prostate is a hotbed of nerve endings and that the pleasure the recipient receives from pegging is potentially very great.

That said, pegging isn't something that turns either of us on.  Perhaps Jill still subscribes to more traditional gender roles, because more often than not she prefers being the sub to my Dom.  If one of the two of us is going to be anally-penetrated it's going to be her.  Jill cannot say whether any of her hesitation is due to her not wanting to do it wrong; having been forcibly ass-fucked by an ex-boyfriend the need to go slow and use plenty of lube is not lost on her.  But if that has anything to do with it, it has less to do with it than the simple fact that she's just not into pegging.

In the interest of being GGG*, I am of the mindset that there is nothing wrong with pegging beyond the fact that it's not my particular kink.  Were it something Jill was interested in trying, I would gladly indulge her, as she is that important to me, and considering how many of my fantasies she's allowed to come true, it's only fair to reciprocate.  However, I can admit to being relieved that pegging isn't something Jill is interested in exploring.

If you want to ask us anything, drop us a line on Formspring, or use the handy Formspring widget on the right-hand side of our blog.  We like sexy questions!  To see who else participated this week, visit Twitter and search for #FormspringFriday!

*Good, giving, and game.  Per advice columnist Dan Savage, this refers to being good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything—within reason.  Coincidentally, Savage is responsible for popularizing the term "pegging".

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Not into it either.But love the pegs and use them in my garden:-)

Michael Samadhi said...

I miss the good old days when "pegging" meant feeding the boner to a girl named Pag!

Hera said...

Are you ever going to be on chat again? I'm inpatient

Twisted Angel said...

First I am with Hera I miss ya'll on chat. Second I am not into pegging either. There is just nothing for it for myself or my partner. Not that I would have an issue if my lover wanted to try it, I do think it would be awkward however. I know ya'll thought I got lost but my schedule at work was weird and I am just now catching up on every one.... sighs..I go to third shift next week and was wondering which of ya'll if not both could find a way to keep me umm aroused.

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