Formspring Friday: Exhibitionism Across the Miles

Ever stripped on webcam?

Jack's Answer

In the sense that I've donned a feather boa and danced around to "Smack That" while slowly and seductively removing my clothes, no I have not.  I'm not sure why I haven't done this; I'm certain it would be the hottest thing you've ever seen.

However, in the sense that I've gotten naked on cam with someone watching me, yes I have.  Many times, in fact.  I may have a huge voyeuristic streak, but I'm definitely an exhibitionist as well.  The first time I used a webcam was around 2001.  I'd been dating someone who lived a couple hours away from me, and for Christmas we each bought the other a webcam so we could see each other even when we weren't physically close.  Of course, the thought of watching each other get off was at the forefront of our minds, and we did this quite often.

After we broke up, I found myself using the webcam while chatting on Yahoo! Messenger.  Once in awhile I managed to "cam-to-cam" with someone, and if she got naked I did as well.  Even though they were just on webcam, sometimes it was a decent substitute for actually going out and trying to get laid.

When Jill and I lived apart, webcamming was a way of life.  We would use Yahoo! Messenger, and later Skype, as a means of maintaining intimacy despite the distance between us.  We would usually get naked and masturabte on cam once or twice a week, as our schedules permitted.  Generally this would happen right before bed.  It was a very sexy way to wrap up a long day.

I've also cammed with a few female friends of ours.  Though it was a considerable thrill to get naked with a random person whose name I didn't know and who I'd never actually meet, I can think of very few things more exciting than seeing someone naked after knowing them for years.  If she's busily masturbating, even moreso.  I hope they felt the same way.

Jill's Answer

Of course!  I used to love getting naked on webcam.  In fact, I still do, but I don't do it as often as I wish I could.  It was such a sexy exhibitionist thrill to show off, especially if the person or people who were watching were getting off.

The first time I ever stripped on webcam was some time after I graduated college.  I had moved back in with my parents.  The only computer in the house was in my Dad's home office.  It was well after midnight, and I snuck in and locked the door.  I wasn't about to turn on the lights, because I never knew who might get up to get a drink of water in the middle of the night, see the light, and come to investigate.

I had been chatting with this guy in a chat room, and after awhile I agreed to flash my breasts.  Of course, after he told me that they were the best he'd ever seen, I agreed to take off my top.  (Flattery will get you everywhere.)  We continued to chat, and I slipped my hand beneath my bra and rubbed my nipples.  Eventually I stood up and performed a slow striptease, taking off my bra, skirt, and panties while the guy masturbated.

After this experience, I began to frequent chat rooms on a regular basis.  I would have cybersex frequently, and once in awhile I would get on cam and strip or masturbate for the lucky guy.  I enjoyed being able to turn these men on.  I enjoyed the tease, and I found it to be a wonderful ego boost.

Of course, Jack and I have had sex on cam many times with different people watching.  While we have occasionally cammed for random couples, most of the time we've done it for close friends.

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