Thursday, April 19, 2012

The Naughty Hangout: Opening Up


This week's main theme at The Naughty Hangout is "Characters".  While we had lots of ideas for this one, we're out of town and we had neither the time nor the resources to make any of them happen.  Someday you'll get to see me all done up like Julia from Cowboy Bebop*, but not this week.  Instead, we decided to go with the second theme, "Open".

 Jack and I have considered opening up our relationship to no-strings-attached, emotionless sex.  I don't think we'll ever actually do it, certainly not in its truest sense.  But we find the concept of non-monogamy appealing, especially as we don't believe that human beings are biologically wired to have sex with the same partner over the majority of a lifetime.

Last year, we read Sex at Dawn, by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá.  This year, we are reading Opening Up, by Tristan Taormino.  The former presents evidence that monogamy is contrary to human nature, while the latter examines in an unbiased and sensible fashion the various models of non-monogamy practiced worldwide.

 Open robe and open legs, not to mention the "open relationship" theme of this open book.

Since the third theme is "Rare", do we get bonus points for this rare glimpse of my open eyes?

13 comments:

KaziGrrl said...

I'll give you bonus points... c'mere ;)

I don't do emotionless sex well, it's a constant fight for headspace. :s

~Kazi xxx

heelsnstocking said...

Wonderful pics and beautiful eyes :)

the late phoenix said...

lovely pics

COWBOY BEBOP!!! hey, with that, i'm sold, you got me, i'm there...

sadeyquinn said...

Nice, I'll look up those books.

Another good read is 'Ethical Slut'- great for those considering alternatives to monogamy (and, probably, you've already heard of it or read it...).

Dru said...

love the pics! is this another sexy invitation to your bed/room? *dashes in before she can get an answer*

Nolens Volens said...

Looking forward to your characters at a later time...but that second picture was delicious. :)

We couldn't get into the emotionless sex...it happened once and we didn't like how the other couple kept pushing for more sex.

We discovered that swinging was not the way we liked, but rather we liked polyamory in a loose sense.

Just something to think about.

Mia Wallace said...

LOVE seeing the eyes!!

Hedone said...

Sorry Jill, photo 2 I didn't even notice your eyes.

I will have to read Sex at Dawn. I have thought that monogamy was contrary to human nature since I was 17/18 years old. And then there is the 'vow of celibacy' for priests in the Catholic church...

Leah said...

You have beautiful eyes Jill. There's a hidden naughtiness there!

Great take on the theme by the way xxx

Gardener said...

Cowboy Bebop, eh? Could you contact me privately? I have some anime-related questions I'd like to ask you.

Sexy Smile said...

Those eyes, those eyes...they are so sultry. But it's really your beautiful breasts that I couldn't take MY eyes off of. The pose in the first pic is cool - sexy and carrying out the open theme.

Oh, I just read 50 Shades of Grey while on a business trip. Now I'll add these books to my list.

erix69 said...

Oh you're so sexy people, enjoy reading your adventures...and I agree your eyes, lovely soft breasts and not to forget your nice hands...so sensual!
Grtz from the Netherlands

viemoira said...

Wonderful pictures!

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